Tips on how to win your Dream man’s love

I have heard many women say, they cannot go after a potential suitor or go after a man who they have feelings for or be the first to tell a man that they have fallen in love with them, thus saying they cannot approach a man to express how they feel about them, even when they obviously like the man and are dying to say hello; and almost all the time I hear such words, I always have the same expression, "like seriously"!, The truth is that, there is nothing wrong with a girl telling a man how they feel, it may sound awkward but we are in 2015, this reservations is so old school and ladies should get over themselves and get assertive about how they feel about a man.

My recent experience was in Maryland, Lagos, I was in a restaurant having dinner with a friend, and I heard a girl talking on the phone by my side, she was talking about a guy in her office, and this lady talk so passionate about this dude and how she was dying for the guy to even say hi to her, but to no avail, and perhaps the other lady on the phone made a suggestion for the girl to approach him and the next thing I heard was “ him go see me finish” and she still went on telling her friend on the phone how she is into this guy as she giggled and smiled passionately and I was amazed by her.  My question now to ladies is, what is wrong with a girl going after her desire and ask a guy out? Please if you have qualms with this suggestion please kindly leave a comment.

My advise to ladies is, please when you meet a guy you have a super crush or you blatantly have fallen hopelessly in love with, please go after the guy and at least become friends with him, you never can tell, the guy maybe shy to say hi to you, or maybe having low esteem, thinking maybe you are above his class, so my advice to ladies out there, having this problem, is to say hi to him and start from there, you never can tell, breaking the ice might be what the dude wants to boost his moral for the major toasting to begin.

When you meet a guy you like, start by saying hello, with a friendly smile, this will serve as reassurance for the dude that you are down with him and he mighty pick it up from there, some ladies do not help guys at all, they are obviously dying for the guy and they will still be forming and making faces. How can a guy approach you when your face is telling him not to dare?

Become friendly with that dude: you can start a friendly conversation with that dude, by complimenting his shirt, or his white teeth or his hair-cut, there are so many ice-breaker you can start with, I am even surprise that people still make these mistake of letting a potential lover go because they are too proud to make a friendly face or start a friendly conversation.

You can smile: even when you do not want to smile, lady this dude might be the one who will take you to the altar, you really do not want to let him go because somebody made you angry and you want to kill every other person including your dream guy, put up a smiling face whenever he comes around and then you can go back to being angry when his gone.

Ask the dude for is Facebook account details, so you can friend him on face book, add him on your BBM or on twitter, follow him on Instagram and send him messages, all these could be the ice breaker the dude wants to reassure him that you are not too big. Try them and see if they guy will not come for you.

Don’t lie to your potential lover when you guys start talking and getting to know each other better, there is nothing that ruins relationship more than lies, because you might be feeling that, the dude is not serious and you might say it’s just a fling and start lying to your man, and at the end, the dude may propose to you and when this happens you will start regretting why you had lied to him, you will be hurt and heart-broken and you may hurt your potential dream guy and everything that you have lied to build up will go down the drain. So please don’t lie, I beg you, be as honest as possible because guys always find out lies at the end.

I know a lot of people may say, they cannot try it, but what about you? an assertive lady and knowing  what you want in a man, try these simple steps and I promise you, your dream guy will be running to you as if you have jazzed him, be bold and go after what you want, because it may be the key to your happiness in life, stop coasting and stop wasting time to find happiness in a man.

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